Lilith efsanesini bir \u00e7o\u011fumuz bilir. Belki de \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmenin, ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilki diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir. Adem’in ilk kar\u0131s\u0131 olan Lilith ona itaat etmedi\u011fi ve ikisinin de topraktan yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015fit olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011finden dolay\u0131 tepki \u00e7eker. B\u00f6ylece cennetten kovulur. Adem’e de kendi kaburga kemi\u011finden Havva e\u015f olarak verilir. Havva tabii ki itaat eder, t\u00fcm i\u015fleri yapar.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu \u00e7ok eski bilinen metninden beri pek bi\u015fey de\u011fi\u015fmemi\u015f. Bu durumumuzda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n pay\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6zard\u0131 etmemek gerek. Ataerkil toplumun kurallar\u0131 erkekler kadar kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da beynine i\u015flemi\u015f, toplumsal bellek ve ortak haf\u0131za sayesinde bize dayat\u0131lan rollere uyum sa\u011flamam\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Sanayi devrimiyle erkek i\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fc yeterli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kad\u0131nlar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131na kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar ama ne yaz\u0131k ki ayn\u0131 i\u015fte erkeklerden daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck \u00fccretle \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. 2016 y\u0131l\u0131nda bile tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f \u015firketlerin kad\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131 daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck \u00fccretle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, y\u00f6netici konumlar\u0131 kad\u0131n haketse bile erkek \u00e7al\u0131\u015fana verilir. Kad\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 ararsa uyumsuz olarak etiketlenip etkisizle\u015ftirilir. \u0130\u015fyerlerinin verilen i\u015flere g\u00f6re harcanan performans hesaplamalar\u0131nda, man-hour man-power adland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 kullanmalar\u0131 zaten genel durumu a\u00e7\u0131klamaya yetiyor. \u0130nsan-saat’e ge\u00e7meye daha \u00e7ok var galiba.<\/p>\n
Asl\u0131nda kad\u0131n-erkek olarak k\u0131yaslanmak da ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa destek olmuyor mu? \u0130steyen istedi\u011fi gibi, herkes kendi alg\u0131s\u0131yla, kendi taraf\u0131ndan yorumlay\u0131p k\u0131yasl\u0131yor. Yoksa “insan” diyerek ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa daha kolay hay\u0131r diyebilir miyiz? \u0130ster kad\u0131n do\u011fsun ister erkek yada cinsiyetini ne hissederse hissetsin sadece “insan”.<\/p>\n
Ko\u015fullar ne olursa olsun her kad\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7aresine bakar. Bozk\u0131rda, tarlada k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131zken \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc okutulmaya yat\u0131l\u0131 b\u00f6lge okuluna g\u00f6nderilmek \u00fczere se\u00e7ilen \u00e7ocuk genelde erkek oland\u0131r. Mucizeler de olur bazen birileri ona bir kardelen gibi karlardan ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yard\u0131m eder. Kad\u0131n kafas\u0131na koydu\u011funu asl\u0131nda herzaman yapar! Dayatmalara ra\u011fmen ,toplumsal cinsiyete ra\u011fmen, babas\u0131na, a\u011fbisine, kocas\u0131na ra\u011fmen her kad\u0131n asl\u0131nda istediklerini bir \u015fekilde yapar: tabii ya\u015f\u0131yorsa…………….. Son y\u0131llardaki \u00f6l\u00fcmlerin de a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 budur. Kendi fikri olan, kendine yeten kad\u0131n, erke\u011fin zorlamalar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015farken yapmayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fc olmal\u0131d\u0131r s\u00f6z dinletilmesi i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n
Bazen k\u00f6t\u00fcmser oluyor insan bazen iyimser ben ikincisini se\u00e7enlerdenim \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 kalabilmeye \u00e7abal\u0131yorum. Belki de yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n boyutuna bakmadan bi\u015feyler yapmak hi\u00e7bi\u015fey yapmadan oturmaktan daha iyidir. Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce Tunceli’den gelip Anadolu yakas\u0131nda lisede T\u00fcrkan hocan\u0131n emekleriyle okuyan k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum, hepsi \u00fcniversiteye de gitti. 25 y\u0131ld\u0131r eczanemde benimle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131n hepsi erkeklere \u00f6ncelik verilen bu d\u00fcnyada kendi yollar\u0131n\u0131 buldular. Bunlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131k\u00e7a daha da \u00fcmitleniyorum ve \u015funu hi\u00e7 unutmuyorum Newyork’ta bir kelebek kanat \u00e7\u0131rpsa \u00c7in’de deprem olabilirmi\u015f………<\/p>\n
Ecz. Peruze \u015eENOL<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lilith efsanesini bir \u00e7o\u011fumuz bilir. Belki de \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmenin, ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilki diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir. Adem’in ilk kar\u0131s\u0131 olan Lilith ona itaat etmedi\u011fi...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[68],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ecz-peruze-senol"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t